|Before anyone says the standard, "That's not very Zen of you,"|
let me just say, "I know and I don't care as long as it
helps put a stop to body policing."
Guess what I have never gotten out of my head? And guess what I'll be damned if I allow myself to repeat aloud, even if it does sometimes creep back into the forefront of my mind from where I keep it hidden in its ugly place in the back?
Never, NEVER will I police my son's body. Never, never will I police anyone else's. Want to mess with your child's head? Police away. Otherwise, let them be.